The Ultimate Guide to SoCal | Wedding Guest Edition

If you’re heading to SoCal to explore, visit a friend, or celebrate love, you’re in for an amazing time. Before I moved to San Diego, I traveled to this region for more weddings than I could count, and it’s a playground for thrill-seekers and history buffs alike. There’s so much more to see than see the Hollywood sign (snore). On that note, let’s dive into my favorite things to do in Southern California!

This Guide Is For…

• Wedding guests looking to make the most of their trip out west
• Generous couples wanting to plan activities for the whole fam
• Solo travelers looking to explore Southern California’s attractions
• Anyone researching before deciding on their next big vacation spot
• New SoCal or America residents who need to catch up on the sights

From beachy vibes to desert dreams, I’m covering it all. :)

23 Top Things to Do in Southern California

Beach Bliss

Catch a Wave in San Diego

• If you’re not afraid to take a dip in the ocean, exploring the California surf scene is a must-try experience. Even if you’re a total newbie, there are tons of schools that’ll get you hanging ten in no time. Hit up La Jolla Shores for some gentle waves for beginners. Don’t miss the sea lions sunbathing while you’re there, either!

Soak in the Sunset on Santa Monica Pier

• There’s something magical about watching the sun dip into the ocean from this iconic spot. Grab some ice cream, vibe to the street performers, and enjoy that golden hour glow.

Host a S’mores and Stars Night at Dockweiler Beach

• Dockweiler is one of the few beaches that still allows bonfires. It’s a chill spot to regroup after a day of sightseeing or shopping.

Desert Dreams

Stargazing in Joshua Tree

• Okay, the night sky in Joshua Tree National Park? Mind-blowing. I’ve never seen so many stars in my life. Pack a blanket and some hot cocoa, and prepare to see sparkling views that’ll have you reeling.

Sky-High Views in Palm Springs | The Aerial Tramway

• Want to see the desert from a whole new angle? This rotating tram car takes you on a jaw-dropping ride up the side of a mountain. The view at the top? Worth. Every. Penny.

Bliss Out in Desert Hot Springs

• After busting moves at the wedding, your muscles will be begging for a soak in these natural hot springs. I’m obsessed with Two Bunch Palms Resort—it’s an amazing hotel with world-class amenities.

Mountain Majesty

Hike it Out in Big Bear

• Big Bear Lake is a total stunner year-round. In summer, I’m all about the Pine Knot Trail for those Insta-worthy views. Visiting in the winter? Time to hit the slopes and shred some powder!

Zip Through the San Gabriel Mountains

• Adrenaline junkies, this one’s for you! Soaring through the treetops on a zipline near Wrightwood? It’s the ultimate rush.

Cruise the Rim of the World Highway

• This winding road serves up some seriously breathtaking views of the San Bernardino Mountains. Pro tip: Stop at the lookout points for some killer photo ops.

Wine Country Wonders

Sip and Savor in Temecula

• Move over, Napa! Temecula Valley is where it’s at for wine lovers. My go-to? Baily Vineyard & Winery. Their tasting room is cozy AF, and don’t even get me started on their reds.

Float Over Vineyards

• Seeing the vineyards from a hot air balloon at sunrise? Next level. It’s one of those bucket list experiences you’ll be talking about forever. Just make sure to book ahead!

Go to a Stomping Party… Because Wine Not?

• Some wineries let you release some inner rage and stomp grapes during harvest season. It’s messy, silly, and ridiculously fun.

Urban Adventures

Dance at the Hollywood Bowl

• There’s nothing like an outdoor concert under the stars. Pack a picnic, bring your crew, and enjoy some world-class tunes in this iconic venue.

Eat Your Way Through Downtown LA

• From landmarks like the historic Grand Central Market to trendy taco shops, DTLA is foodie heaven. My hot take? The sliders at Eggslut are life-changing.

Wander the Venice Canals

• These hidden waterways are like a little slice of European architecture right in LA. Rent a paddleboard or just stroll along the charming footbridges. It’s a cute neighborhood.

Unique Experiences

Nerd Out at Griffith Observatory

• Calling all Star Wars fans! Parts of the OG movie were filmed here. Even if you’re not into sci-fi, the views of LA will blow your mind.

Lights, Camera, Action | Take a TV Studio Tour

• Go behind the scenes at Warner Bros. or Universal Studios. Who knows, you might bump into your favorite celeb!

Ghost Hunt in Old Town San Diego

• Get spooked with tales of haunted monuments and mysterious happenings. It’s a fun (and slightly scary) way to dive into San Diego’s history.

Natural Escapes

Whale Hello There!

• New England who?!  Travel to Newport Beach for some whale watching! I saw a whole pod of gray whales on my last trip – it was insane! The best time to go is December to April.

Wander in Balboa Park

• With 17 museums, gorgeous sculpture gardens, and the famous San Diego Zoo, you could spend days here and still not see it all. It’s like Disneyland for culture vultures and a SoCal staple.

Rainy Day Excursions

Put That Art History Class to Use at The Broad

• This contemporary art museum in LA is perfect for those (rare) rainy days. The Infinity Mirror Rooms are straight-up Instagram gold.

Treat Yo’self to a Spa Day

• SoCal has some ah-mazing spas. My fave? Glen Ivy Hot Springs in Corona. The mud baths are next-level relaxation.

Glam it Up at the TCL Chinese Theatre

• Experience old Hollywood glamour at its finest in this historic movie palace. Checking out the iconic hand prints outside is a must-do.

Bonus: Get Hitched in SoCal!

• Inspired to plan your own “I do”? Check out my blog post on the best wedding venues in Southern California for some seriously stunning options! From awe-inspiring gardens on the coastline to clifftop ranch land, there are dreamy destinations for every couple. Click the button below to get inspired.

Your SoCal Trip Toolkit

• Weather App – SoCal weather is usually perfect, but it’s always good to double-check. I swear by Weather Underground for spot-on forecasts.
• Traffic Savior – LA traffic can be a nightmare. The Waze app is a lifesaver for finding the best routes.
• Public Transit Made Easy – If you’re braving LA’s public transit, the LA Metro app is a must-have.

Planning For the Season

While SoCal’s weather is mild all year round, the seasonal spirit is still alive and well! Check out these additional activities depending on when you visit…

FAQs for the Extra Prepared Traveler

Do I need a car in Southern California?

While having wheels is handy, it’s not always a must. In cities like LA and San Diego, you can totally get by with ride-sharing apps or public transit. But if you’re planning to bounce around different areas, renting a car is your best bet.

Is it really always sunny in Southern California?

Okay, so we do get a ton of sunshine, but it’s not always bikini weather! Winters can actually be pretty cool and rainy, especially inland. And don’t forget about those sneaky microclimates – it might be tank-top weather in LA and sweater weather at the beach.

Are there any popular restaurants that you recommend?

Yes! There are wayyyy too many to choose from, but here are some you shouldn’t miss…

How do I dodge the crazy LA traffic?

Honestly? Time travel! But since that’s not a thing (yet), try to avoid rush hours (usually 7-9 AM and 4-7 PM). Use traffic apps and consider taking the scenic route—it might be longer, but it’s way more chill.

Should I be worried about earthquakes or wildfires?

Earthquakes and wildfires are, unfortunately, now part of SoCal life, but don’t let them scare you off. For quakes, most are tiny tremors you might sleep right through. As for wildfires, they’re more of a summer/fall thing and usually happen in rural areas. Just keep an eye on local news if you’re heading to the boonies. In the cities? You’re more likely to get a sunburn than see any action from Mother Nature.

What’s the best way to spot celebrities?

First rule of celeb spotting? Play it cool! Hang out in spots like West Hollywood or Beverly Hills. But remember, celebs are just people trying to live their lives – so maybe don’t go full paparazzi if you do see one! Keep the photography respectful.

Is Southern California expensive?

Certain areas can be pricey, not gonna lie. But there are tons of ways to save! Look for free museum days, pack picnics for the beach, and hit up happy hour deals. And remember, national parks and sunshine are always free!

Book Your Flight 🌞

Southern California is like a choose-your-own-adventure book but way better. Whether you’re here for a wedding or just to explore, there’s something for every vibe. From sun-soaked beaches to snow-capped mountains and buzzing cities to chill deserts, SoCal’s got it all. So pack your sunscreen, bring your sense of adventure, and get ready for a trip that’ll blow your mind and pop off on Instagram. Who knows? You might fall so hard for SoCal that you’ll be planning your own wedding here!